Since coming out of the fog in 2004 some things have become clearer and clearer to me so I want to set the record straight. When I wrote this apology letter to you, my children, there is still an element of “blaming” the woman for provoking male lust via “immodest dress”. Nowadays, I think that [...]
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Chains are Broken: Redux
Posted in Lessons Learned, pain, hurt, wounds, and healing, who overcomes on December 31, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
May the Chains of the Sins of the Parents be Broken!
Posted in Lessons Learned, pain, hurt, wounds, and healing, prayer, who overcomes on December 13, 2010 | 1 Comment »
Some formerly QF Mom’s have compiled their apologies to QF Daughters. I am not sure that any of my daughters or sons would identify with those apologies or not? But it reminded me that I wanted to post this here for you? I don’t know if you will remember when I gave this to you [...]
God made me female and God loves me female!
Posted in glorious inheritance, pain, hurt, wounds, and healing, vessels, who overcomes, tagged Molly, patriarchy, self worth, self-deprecation, self-rejection, vessel, who I am in Christ on February 19, 2008 | 5 Comments »
I read a moving post yesterday on Molly’s blog. She links to a place with post after post of Christian women accepting as a matter of fact that their very femaleness renders them less capable “these women… share that their femaleness makes them more emotional, more inclined toward error, etc.” I used to be right [...]
1 Tim 2:12-15 – promise of RESTORATION!
Posted in glorious inheritance, intimacy, pain, hurt, wounds, and healing, tagged 1 Tim 2, Bible, dominion, garden intimacy, glorious inheritance, redemption, restoration on February 15, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
1 Tim 2:12–And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence. 1 Tim 2:13–For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 1 Tim 2:14and Adam was not deceived, but the woman, having been deceived, into transgression came, “Adam was not deceived” “not deceived” does [...]
Circumcision of the Heart
Posted in pain, hurt, wounds, and healing, sanctification, tagged circumcision of the heart, CS Lewis quote, Dawn Treader, painful things, sanctification on February 14, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
If I want the “renewed mind” of Rom 12:1-2; if I want to really be able to love God with ALL heart, soul, mind, strength, then I believe I must submit to circumcision of the heart. I must invite GOD to remove the band of flesh, all the bitter roots, to tear them out. Only [...]
Emotional Leprosy
Posted in pain, hurt, wounds, and healing, tagged emotional leprosy, recovery, verbal abuse on February 14, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Leprosy is a disease which removes physical feelings. The result is that the limbs become damaged: burned, cut, etc. And, over a long period of time they become badly scarred, disfigured, and crippled. All because the feelings are not there so the person cannot reflexively back away from the source of the wounding. I have [...]
